tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6046496.post112850633465673429..comments2023-06-04T04:46:02.530-04:00Comments on Brainstogether: Always Abhinavhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17899751782627163487noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6046496.post-1128946429155464102005-10-10T08:13:00.000-04:002005-10-10T08:13:00.000-04:00Stories collection at my blog<A HREF="http://www.techkiran.com/techstory/index.html" REL="nofollow">Stories collection</A> at my <A HREF="http://techkiran.com" REL="nofollow">blog</A>KThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09228255823983571075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6046496.post-1128943290072356222005-10-10T07:21:00.000-04:002005-10-10T07:21:00.000-04:00Hi Abhinav,It's a wonderfull writing after a long ...Hi Abhinav,<BR/>It's a wonderfull writing after a long time.<BR/>About this story and the characters of “Shavvy and Subbi“ were as if real life.<BR/>As per my opinion every one should express there feelings and confirm others feelings about othemself, so that we do not get into any assumption and loose him/her. One should notice every small change in themselelves and others also, so that they do not get into situation of "<A HREF="http://techkiran.com/2005/05/who-moved-my-cheese.html" REL="nofollow">Who Moved My Cheese</A>".<BR/>So Subbi did right thing of asking Shavvy about chage in his behaviour.<BR/> But I think though they had a small interaction during the leaves, they should have discussed about the <BR/>any change in their lives or minds. like shavvy looking for other activities, he should have made that clear to<BR/>subbi, and subbi should have supported him. Love is not in keeping other person restircetd to us but He/She <BR/>needs to help and encourage there friends to lead to success.<BR/> Still it was a nice story. i am also write about such stories if i read it any where.<BR/><BR/>[Sorry for my poor english]<BR/><BR/>Thanks,<BR/>Kiran.KThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09228255823983571075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6046496.post-1128678631140054232005-10-07T05:50:00.000-04:002005-10-07T05:50:00.000-04:00This is a great write up!!!But, the whole story ha...This is a great write up!!!<BR/>But, the whole story has been looked from a man's eyes. <BR/><BR/>The age that you have mentioned of your hero and heroine in your write-up ... is not when any of them is expected to be mature enough to understand that - <BR/> "There are times in a relationship where even if you don’t communicate, even when you don’t meet each other for days, the heat of the relationship, keeps both warm."<BR/><BR/>And you have very much generalised a guy's role and a gal's role in a relationship. <BR/>I feel it also depends on the indiviuals in the relationship.<BR/><BR/>For ex when u say -<BR/> "It’s so hard a feel that you can’t look to other girls can’t talk much with them for the sheer reason what you might have to face if you do that."<BR/> <BR/>I know of a guy who does not allow his lady to wear a lipstick or far that matter wear a sleeveless dress. <BR/>I also know of a guy who got very angry with his girlfriend for talking to his friend in his absence ... and this almost lead to their breakup.( And these are not charaters from a fiction ... but people I know and have talked to).<BR/><BR/>I even know of guys who had been in a relationship with some lady for almost over 2 years. Then one day the lady comes to know that the guy is marrying someone his parents have selected for him( the guy did not have the decency enough to infirm her himself) ... was the girl again wrong in this case ?<BR/><BR/>What I feel is - <BR/>When a guy thinks he is falling in love ... he pays all his attention to achieve that lady love, but once he has achieved her there is not much challenge for him in love ...<BR/>Whereas, for a girl once she is in love ... it becomes her priority and she expects the same from the guy. <BR/><BR/>So, moral of the story is ... both of them are a bit wrong and a bit right ... and you can't blame anyone for a breaking relationship.<BR/><BR/><BR/>And its high-time that you have a girl friend.<BR/><BR/>All the best!!!! <BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>There are many differences in the way a man thinks or reacts<BR/>and a woman thinks and reacts ... you really must read "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". <BR/>An example - <BR/><BR/><BR/>Excerpts from HER & HIS diaries. Don't read HIS Diary first. <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>HER DIARY <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>I asked him what was wrong - he said, "Nothing." I asked him if it was <BR/><BR/>my fault that he was upset. He said it had nothing to do with me and not <BR/><BR/>to worry. <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>On the way home, I told him that I loved him, but he simply smiled and <BR/><BR/>kept driving. I can't explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't <BR/><BR/>say, <BR/><BR/>"I love you too." <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing <BR/><BR/>to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched TV; he seemed distant <BR/><BR/>and absent. <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>Finally, I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed. <BR/><BR/>I decided that I could not take it anymore, so I decided to confront him <BR/><BR/>with the situation but he had fallen asleep. <BR/><BR/>I started crying and cried until I fell asleep. I do not know what to do. <BR/><BR/>I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>My life is a disaster. <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>*************************************************** <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>HIS DIARY <BR/><BR/> <BR/><BR/>India lost the match again. DAMN IT!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com